Harassed

Entah kenapa, pagi ini saya merasa terdorong untuk berbagi pengalaman tentang pelecehan seksual. I guess I wanted to talk about this since long ago here, tapi belum ada mood yang pas. And who knows why this morning’s it? LOL. Mungkin karena beberapa hari yang lalu saya melihat hashtag #16DaysOfActivism! Saya gak ingat kapan pertama kali […]

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(wrong) Love

Falling in love is funny, right? It can happen after some period of time with obvious signs, or it can happen instantly without any warning or without you knowing why you even in love with some people. Some people is in love with the best person for them, and also in the best circumstances. Those […]

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Say NO harder

Are anyone here? Have you ever say yes to something you don’t want to? Because of peer pressure, or any other pressure for that matter. I remember several times in my life where I did just that. It had something to do with other people pressuring me, and it wasn’t always friend. It was sometimes […]

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Taking the High Road

​It took me the LONGEST time to realize that high road, when dealing with those people who annoy/hurt/abuse you, is the best road to take no matter what happen. Taking the high road means you don’t bring yourself down to their level. Like when they tried to provoke you by calling you stuff, you don’t […]

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Mistakes

​My friend sent me a picture from 7 years ago. A picture when we were hanging out one evening on a Ramadan iftar. I saw myself in the picture, and noticed some little details that reminded me of my younger self. Those days are when I often do things I’m not proud of. In this picture, […]

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Tare

Imagine a scale as your emotional cup, and its got a ‘tare’ button to deny all the weight you supposed to hold.

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To be or not to be nosy

Beberapa hari yang lalu, saya kepikiran untuk nulis soal ‘insensitivity‘ yang saya temuin di sekitar kita. Insensitivity yang saya maksud adalah ketika satu orang ketemu orang lain dan dia dengan ringannya menanyakan hal-hal tak berujung dan seringkali sensitif ditanyakan pada orang lain. Setelah observasi yang gak sengaja saya lakukan di sosial media (meaning saya mengobservasinya sambil leyeh-leyeh buka timeline Facebook, Instagram, atau […]

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A. Pes.

Morning, folks. How’s your saturday going? Saya pribadi akhir-akhir ini malas parah ke mana-mana karena baju hamil pesanan belum datang (baju lama mulai pada gak cukup, hiks. Celana jeans udah gabisa dikancing). Haha. Kali ini cuma pingin nulis uneg-uneg gak jelas karena kemarin saya punya pengalaman gak ngenakin sama online shop huhu. Setelah dipikir-pikir saya akan nyebutin nama tokonya, […]

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